1). “Using Intuition” (pages 29-32), in Soul Stories (Simon and Schuster, NY, 2000) will show you gently one way to listen for intuition.
2). “Consult My Intuition” ( page 191), in Spiritual partnership: The Journey to Authentic Power (HarperOne, San Francisco, 2010) tells you how to do that. Pages 39-40 give the most dramatic, and hopefully helpful, example of not honoring intuition.