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It was a joy to be with you in Chicago. This micro-website will help you deepen what we discussed and
apply it now that
you are home.

—Gary Zukav

Here is what we discussed about Relationships


Morning:

  • The most meaningful relationships require distinguishing within yourself the difference between love and fear and choosing love no matter what is happening inside you or outside of you.

  • People who are committed to choosing love no matter what is happening and to supporting one another form a new type of relationship – a spiritual partnership.

  • Spiritual partnerships are partnerships between equals for the purpose of spiritual growth.

  • Spiritual partnerships are different from marriages, friendships, and every other kind of relationship.

  • Many couples are transforming their marriages from “I need you to complete me” or “You need me to complete you” or “We need each other for survival and comfort”

  • into partnerships between equals for the purpose of spiritual growth

  • You can create spiritual partnerships with friends, family members, and co-workers, too, provided they are want to become emotionally aware and make healthy, constructive choices.

Afternoon:

  • Feeling inferior, superior, or equal has to do only with you.

  • Superiority and inferiority are experiences of frightened parts of your personality. They relate personality-to-personality.

  • Equality is an experience of loving parts of your personality. They relate soul-to-soul.

  • If you are not equal, you will feel superior or inferior.

  • When you feel superior or inferior, frightened parts of your personality are active.

  • When you feel equal, loving parts of your personality are active

  • Personalities are not equal. Some are athletic, some are intellectual, some are artistic, some are large, and some are small.

  • Souls are equal.