1). This is another important question. Not everyone really wants to be an equal. Some people want to be superior and some want to be inferior. Being equal means committing to changing yourself when you notice that you are feeling superior and also when you notice that you are feeling inferior. Spiritual partners are committed to creating equality in themselves, regardless of how others are experiencing themselves.
2). As we mentioned earlier, the “Equality” chapter (pages 95-100) in Spiritual partnership: The Journey to Authentic Power (HarperOne, San Francisco, 2010) will show you a lot about superiority, inferiority, and how to create equality within yourself.