SPECIAL OPERATIONS OF THE HEART

In the mid-eighties a young couple told a private conference of scientists, academics, sociologists, and writers that they would be working with the U.S. Army on a program involving exceptional human capabilities and were asking for advice from their colleagues. Their subjects would be two Special Forces A Detachments, or Green Berets. This couple was… Continue reading SPECIAL OPERATIONS OF THE HEART

THE SHOCKING TRUTH ABOUT COMPASSION

An alcoholic demanded to return home from a treatment center. His wife felt that being home where she could take care of him was a good thing even though the staff at the center strongly advised otherwise. Once she had assisted with his return, she did her best, as she had over their years together,… Continue reading THE SHOCKING TRUTH ABOUT COMPASSION

CONSCIOUS CHRISTMAS OR UNCONSCIOUS CHRISTMAS?

What would a conscious Christmas look like? It would look like the Christ – loving others, caring about others without second agendas, no attempt to impress, patient, and caring. It would not be limited to a day, evening, or night. It would not be a special event. It would be a life-long endeavor, focusing the power of goodness, compassion, and Divinity onto to every interaction and experience.… Continue reading CONSCIOUS CHRISTMAS OR UNCONSCIOUS CHRISTMAS?

CONNECTING WITH AN OPEN HEART

Last week I received an invitation from a small town in Wyoming to a ceremony for Vietnam veterans. The names of each are being etched into a plaque to be mounted in the town square next month. They invited me as one of their own – a vet from Cowley, Wyoming. I felt the depth… Continue reading CONNECTING WITH AN OPEN HEART

DON’T LOSE YOUR COMPASSION

When I first arrived on Okinawa more than fifty years ago almost everyone told me that I would not want to leave at the end of my tour of duty. They were right. Okinawa’s white sand beaches and turquoise waters were breathtakingly beautiful. Lush green covered the island, and I slowly discovered how much I… Continue reading DON’T LOSE YOUR COMPASSION

HOW TO CREATE COMPASSIONATE HOLIDAYS

Compassionate Holidays require that you act consciously each moment. Unconscious caretaking and pleasing others (giving gifts because it is the “season”) are NOT compassionate deeds. They ignore the humanity of the recipient because the recipient is being exploited by frightened parts of your personality. This type of interaction multiplied billions of time each “Holiday Season”… Continue reading HOW TO CREATE COMPASSIONATE HOLIDAYS

WHAT TO DO WHEN YOU HAVE A BROKEN HEART

Most individuals believe that people or circumstances cause their emotional pain. They say, for example, “He broke my heart.” They make themselves victims. Creating authentic power shows you that you are not a victim. You discover that your emotions are created by dynamics inside you. When you focus outside yourself, these dynamics remain intact to… Continue reading WHAT TO DO WHEN YOU HAVE A BROKEN HEART