Your disgust will disappear. Your heart will open. You will see these behaviors from the inside, so to speak, from an internal perspective – your internal perspective. You will experience what they feel like in you because you have experienced them before and acted on them before. Then connection with that individual is possible. Loving action is possible. You may (probably will) continue to oppose the politics and ideology of that person, but you will no longer hate him or her. You may take the same actions, but you will take them with compassion in your heart. This is not easy to do, but the miracle is worth your effort.